WWJD? What would Jesus do? Simple. He would love anyway.
It saddens me when my spiritual friends close off a lesson from a great incarnated soul like Jesus because they are jaded and hurt by the God his "people" have forced upon us. To me, the messages of all our great spiritual leaders (Ghandi, Mother Theresa, The Buddha, Jesus, Malcom X, et. al.) are blatantly obvious: love anyway.
Friends, don't let your world become jaded because someone else's version of the Creator forces their judgement on you. Don't be mad at the God the church has created for us as this is only a piece of the God that radiates within you. The God you should take comfort in is the one that resides within you. The one that urges you to give money to the homeless person that asks for a change, the one that urges you to give to local charities, the one that cries when they know someone else is suffering. That is God within you and you don't even have to attend church on Sunday to find God. Surely you can believe in yourself. This is what Jesus would have us do.
Jesus was hated, persecuted and eventually murdered by those ruled by fear and hate. Everything he was against. The unfortunate thing I see is so many people that follow the teachings of Jesus only glorify him instead of leading by his example as they should. They praise God and glorify him through prayer and song for how great he is but often do not walk in his footsteps and share his compassion for all people.
Keep fighting friends. Keep searching for Truth. If you haven't already done it, take the good and leave the bad. Don't give up on yourself or the God within you.